Former Oyo state First Lady, Florence Ajimobi teaches her daughter how to handle unfaithful men – she gives her life lessons from how she handled her cheating husband.
Abisola Kola Daisi, Ajimobi’s daughter seems privileged to have such an open-minded mom who truthfully narrates her not-to-sweet experiences with her husband in such an honest and mature way.
Former Oyo state governor, Abiola Ajimobi is said to have cheated on her multiple times – sometimes she caught him in the act.
The heart-warming mother-child chat took place on an Instagram Live Chat – Florence Ajimobi
said that she caught her husband cheating on her a few times but she chose to forgive him to save her marriage. She disclosed that she never raised the matter after he apologized.
She said: “Even on one or two occasions that I’ve caught him cheating, he will apologize. And once he apologizes and it ends, I never go back to them again, I never Bisola, I never ever discussed it.” She must be specially engraced.
She points out that we are no infallible and that she errs sometimes. She advised her daughter not to over-rate cheating as a big sin – that some women build houses without their husbands knowing.
She reveals further that marriage is the dustbin of many dirty secrets from women. “So, if you say somebody is your friend. Why are you keeping things? Sometimes, when I do something, sometimes, I can’t even face my husband. I send him messages when I know I’ve done something because I don’t want to see the hurt on his face, I just write it down. I send him a text and he replies me that ‘it’s OK, Flory, we can talk about it’.”
She plugged another interesting twist that for a man having sex with his wife is different from sex with a side chic. She said having sex with the wife is “making love” while sex with the other woman is just sex.
“But I think most men, when they cheat, they just have sex with the woman. And the women are smart enough. They know what they want. They have sex with them and they…When a man is having a relationship with a woman he loves, he’s making love, he’s not having sex.”
And she gives a big blow to women of easy virtues who prey on other people’s husbands: “So if you’re cheap enough, give yourself to my husband. He’s mine. Whatever is mine will not go away. He will use you and come back to me.”
And ‘bone eaters’ receive another dose from this brave yet loving woman: “I tell people, it’s my leftover you’re eating. He’s my leftover. I’ve eaten the better part of him. I get the chunky meat, eat the bone, it’s none of my business. And you’re doing it hush hush hush hush. You’re not enjoying it because you’re stealing. You’re looking, ‘is somebody there? Am I going to be caught?’
She added that cheating hurts a woman when she loves her husband, but a woman who doesn’t love her husband wouldn’t care what he does.
“If you don’t love your husband, you won’t be jealous. A woman that doesn’t love her husband will not care what he does out there. She doesn’t care. Even when you see him, you don’t care.
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