Many times, many people are not sure how to define their relationship or are unsure if it is genuine or just going through crisis, which happens in many relationships.
But if signs are continually present in your relationship, you need to fix the as soon as possible.
1: Emotionally Distant
Fakers have a tendency to be non-communicative. They’ll provide little to no substance to what’s going on in their life. They’ll also make excuses why they “couldn’t” communicate especially when it is a little difficult to do so.
The difference between them and someone with genuine love for you is the extra effort needed to reach out when it’s not so easy. If your partner is not a faker and he/she is emotionally disconnect, surely, there is fire on the mountain.
Wise people say: “quitters can never be winners”. Also, you should not go into a relationship you are not ready to fight for or invest to make it work.
Conflict happens in every relationship. It demonstrates a level of care which partner have for one another.
Every conflict demands a resolution. If you’re the only one trying to resolve any conflict or problems that arise, it’s often a telltale sign of emotional detachment and this of course, is a major sign you’ll find in people who have got only fake love for you.
They really won’t care whether the relationship works or fails.
Also, you may the problem and not know and they may have given up too early. But it can still be fixed if you are ready to work at it.
3: Non-Supportive Parters
Are you always the one to plan things? Check on the other person? Take responsibilities and all that? If so, what concessions, if any, is your partner making? Where’s the effort on their part?
Relationship and compromise are like two peas in a pod. A lack of effort is a universal sign of disinterest – and a relationship is no different
So, get him/her on board with all your power and try to know whey they are the way they are. At times, their answers may shock you.
An authentic relationship sparks feelings of passion for each other. You’ll be curious, concerned, involved, etc in all that the other person does.
Someone who continuously acts indifferent isn’t engaged, likely detached, and unfit – not to mention unworthy – of a real relationship. Draw each other closer and know your interests. The strong may need to work on the weak.
When someone does not really love you, you will know. There’s usually that 6th-sense or the Holy Spirit revelation, if you ae a Christian.
There is a feeling from the pit of your stomach that keeps pocking pricking you, even though you may want to lie to yourself.
Above all, pray and work hard at your relationship. Often times, many romances are not broken beyond repairs but we give up too early because we think relationship ‘auto-works’ or we are just too lazy to make our dream come true.