Anything that your partner says should be taken into consideration and should not just be shoved under the carpet and taken as a joke.
In order to date someone, each relationship goes through the early days of talking and getting to know each other’s beliefs and values.
As a guy it is at this stage that you begin to analyse the girl’s thoughts to see if she is more than just a pretty face and great body and therefore also get to hear what she has to say about things that are important to you and then you can decide to pursue a relationship or walk away.
When you are at this and talking stage it is important to watch her actions and listen carefully to what she says.
You don’t want to miss the hints and regret the relationship later when you could have avoided it all.
If she ever says any of these things, you may want to ask for clarification and be ready to run away as fast as you can if the answers don’t add up.
1. “I can be crazy sometimes”
You want to be in a relationship with someone who I sane and can control their emotions especially when you may be having relationship quarrels.
When people say they can be crazy sometimes, it is often a pointer to, and a glorification of anger issues and other toxic behaviours they don’t want to admit they have.
One of the ways to deal with this is to find out if there have been previous relationships and how they ended.
2. “I need a man that can handle me”
This really need clarification, it may be a sexual craving that you may not be comfortable with.
Does she want you to handle her over-possessiveness, bossiness, stubbornness, overbearing behaviour, jealousy, or some other things.
3. “I have so much drama”
A drama-free relationship is the best, ask her what type of drama she has so that you are clear.
4. “I scare myself sometimes”
Even the sound of this should put some fear into you!
If she scares herself with the kind of impressive work ethic she has, or some other great thing she intensely devotes herself to, this may not be bad after all.
However, if it’s something negative about herself she’s referring to you should be scared, too.
5. “Even my parents fear me”
You want to be with a woman who has people she’s accountable to, and parents are one of such people.
If she’s saying her parents fear her, it means they can’t call her to order when she’s mad, which should worry you.
These are the few things you should look out for when courting a female you have found an interest to.